To commemorate the anniversary of the October 7 attacks and to work toward "stopping the hate on (Britain's) streets," a group of Muslim and Jewish women gathered on Sunday.
At St. John's Church in Waterloo, six Muslim and six Jewish women gathered to discuss the effects of the Middle East crisis on UK communities.
Dubbed a “safe space” by organisers, the group shared their feelings of “exhaustion”, “pain” and “suffering”, often through tears, but were also keen to express their “hope” and “gratitude” which they felt had come from similar acts of unity.
Organisers Julie Siddiqi, a Muslim, and Laura Marks, who is Jewish, are co-founders of the Nisa-Nashim Jewish and Muslim Women’s Network.
They told the PA news agency the meeting was a symbol of cross-faith unity against hatred and “not being made to feel we have to pick sides”.
Ms Marks said: “One year on and here we are: The world feels a worse place. Our responsibility is to ensure we do everything to stop the hate on our streets, to make them feel safe for our children, for our grandchildren so that the world can actually become a safer place for them to be. That can only be done if you do it together.
“Today was a day to come together and to be as one. It sounds simplistic, but the world is so polarised.
“Nobody can hear anybody else’s views. Nobody can hear another narrative. Everybody’s so hurt, so upset, and everybody’s taken one side or the other, and that’s not helpful.
“Here, we don’t have to hate. We mustn’t hate. We must come together. We must build a society here which is safe, where our children can grow up, where there’s no hate because you’re Muslim, hate because you’re Jewish, and people live together in harmony.
“And this was our small gesture, our small way of doing that.”
This idea that we somehow have to sit in this camp or this camp just doesn't resonate with me, and all of us said the same today
Julie Siddiqi
Members were asked to share their feelings and thoughts on what was happening in the Middle East, but also how this had impacted them and their communities.
Many spoke of their “determination” to move forward, while others spoke through tears of how the death of young children in the region had resonated with them personally as mothers and grandmothers.
Ms Siddiqi told PA: “We heard it all today. None of it surprised me. People were talking about literally being exhausted. It’s been a very heavy year.
“We listen to lots of pain, fear, anxiety, and all of that was talked about today. And I’m so grateful to the women for being brave.
“Some of them have faced backlash, me included. I’ve lost friends over this.
“It’s not easy but it just feels right and for us to be able to find spaces to own all of the pain. I connect with mothers whose sons were taken hostage.
“Why would I not? For me, this idea that we somehow have to sit in this camp or this camp just doesn’t resonate with me, and all of us said the same today.
“We need to not allow extreme voices to be the only voices, the loud voices that often try to divide more than connect.
“None of us are saying that we have to agree on everything, but it’s so important for us to stand against hatred together and not be made to feel that we have to pick sides, or we have to only sit in this box or this box.”
The event included a period of “sacred contemplation” alongside a moment of silence and candle lighting for those who have died or are displaced and missing.
Dr Shabina Qayyum, a medic who worked throughout the aftermath of the 7/7 terror attacks, spoke of the importance of safe spaces and called for more across London and the wider UK.
She told PA: “I have found that the discourse in having conversations around this particular topic has been incredibly challenging and hostile.
“We need to be able to have a space where that anger is taken out of the situation and to recognize that we live in a hugely diverse country that is made up of so many faith groups and those that have none, and the anger that stems from something that’s happening thousands of miles away resonates with so many pockets of our community.
“Indeed there have been protests, but isn’t it time for people to come to the table, wise heads, and speak about the solutions in a peaceful manner? That’s what we’re here for.